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"My Song in the Night"

2010-10-09T00:21:00.002-07:00

It's been a long, long, long time since I've posted. I will get back to "y'all" (that one was for you Sister Mahana M.) soon. In the meanwhile I wanted to share a message that I heard and love.

October 3, 2010 Broadcast #4229

In these troubled times, it's reassuring to know that God is in His heaven, watching over His children. This promise is perhaps best expressed in the Psalms: "He that keepeth thee . . . shall neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord is thy keeper."1

The Good Shepherd is vigilant by day and by night. When the shadows get darker and the threats seem more real, He stands ready to help. When disquieting sounds and hidden dangers intensify our fears and shake our peace, He offers comfort as He did to the Psalmist, who testified, "In the night his song shall be with me."2 That song is a song of peace amid the storms of life, of comfort despite heartache and pain, and above all, it is a song of love and tender watch care.

Recently, an elderly widow was asked if she ever felt afraid, living alone as she does. She replied with the kind of faith and conviction that had seen her through many years and many difficult circumstances. She explained that she does not feel afraid because, with all her heart, she knows that God loves her and is watching over her.

No matter how dark the night, we can feel heaven's light. That doesn't mean bad things won't happen. Good people will suffer, hearts will be broken, and anguish in one form or another comes to us all. But we can trust in the Lord's promises. As Victor Hugo once said to strengthen a friend: "Courage, then, and patience! Courage for the great sorrows of life, and patience for the small ones. And then when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake."3

In our quiet moments, we listen to Him whose song in the night whispers peace, comfort, and joy to the soul.

1 Psalms 121:3-5
2 Psalms 42:8
3 Letter to Savinien Lapointe, Mar. 1841, The Letters of Victor Hugo, ed. Paul Meurice (1898), 23.

Happy Memorial Day.

2010-06-02T14:57:00.001-07:00

A few years ago, I moved to the US to pursue an education. I lived in Utah in a friendly neighborhood where the American flag was displayed with pride every holiday. As I saw these flags flying freely I felt unity, love and pride for country. It was a lovely sight. I remember one home in particular that had a real flag pole (instead of brackets) in their front yard and coming from the islands I thought that was really cool!

When we bought our home we worked on the landscaping and for the final touch we added a flag pole and flag. We love it! It has become a landmark for us when we need to give directions on how to get to our home – “Look for the flag”. I love my life here and just wanted to say it’s been a privilege to live here. The other day I came upon this quote that deserves a spot on my blog. President Abraham Lincoln gave his historic Gettysburg Address and eloquently laid out the simple yet profound idea that lies at the heart of this day:
"It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us - that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion - that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain - that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom - and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth."
On this Memorial Day and all the days before and after it, we must remember those in our military who bravely served and never made it home…And that’s one of the many reasons why we fly the flag.

My Heavenly Father Loves Me

2010-04-27T22:04:00.000-07:00

He lives.

Only in Arizona...

2010-03-30T11:40:00.001-07:00

We always get a kick when we see these beauties on the road. It just so happens that we had our camera to document this oh so classic bordering state moment. No offense to our fellow Hispanic neighbors but I’m amazed that one does not get pulled over for this. It’s a road hazard! Now, I will give them credit for their packing skills not an inch is wasted. But still...proceed with caution.

Matchplay 2010

2010-03-29T22:45:00.004-07:00

Fun times with family, friends and celebrities.

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Hello to our families in Utah, Tahiti and New Zealand!
We LOVE you!

My handsome boys.

2010-03-29T22:44:00.000-07:00

Aren’t they cute?

Off they go to a friends house while I get my wisdom teeth removed.

11/11

2010-03-29T22:35:00.001-07:00

We have an 11 year old in the house! Only one more year and she'll be in YW's!!! Thank you to our families near and far for making her day so special!
Happy Birthday Princess! We love you tons!

Time...

2010-03-29T16:04:00.007-07:00

I’ve been horrible at updating my blog. Sorry family. I guess my blog is not at the top of my priority list. A lot has happened and if I had to document it all (day by day) you’ll probably fall asleep reading this post. So I’ll just highlight a few things and refer you to Ty’s blog since he’s done a way better job than yours truly.

- My little sister Mahana received her mission call back in Oct. to serve in the Columbia, South Carolina mission (for the LDS church), English speaking. She entered the Provo Utah MTC March 9, 2010. This was her first time in the US of A and her first time seeing snow and experiencing really, really COLD weather (a real shocker coming from the tropics). Since her English is pretty good instead of the 2 months training at the MTC she only spent a few weeks and leaves today for South Carolina. We are proud of her.

- As a family (with friends too) we have been hiking around our beautiful desert before it’s too hot to do so.

- January 2010 a New Year with the resolution to increase our Temple attendance.

- End of January: we got a new Bishopric therefore Ty was released. Our previous Bishop has faithfully served our ward family for many years so it was time. Bishop Smith was and is a good man , I appreciate his time and sacrifice on our behalf. I will forever be grateful for the opportunity our family got to grow spiritually also. We will always cherish the Smith’s, the Wright’s and the Shiflet’s friendship...good people. We wish our new Bishopric and their families well. The work must go on.

- February: Dreams come true...on a budget we were able to score tickets to the Happiest Place on Earth...all is possible when there is “faith, trust and Pixie dust!” Thank you Craigslist! It’s a tradition of ours to take the soon to be Kindergartener to Disneyland. So Happy Birthday in advance Jonathan!

Funnies

2010-03-25T14:28:00.002-07:00

Just writing this down before I forget...
Jonathan: Mom, could you put some “Sunscream” on me please?
Jonathan: Mom, I brushed my teeth and I “broomed” my hair...
Jonathan: Mom, can I help you “rip” (grate) cheese for the tacos?

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...

2009-12-09T13:41:00.000-07:00

Monday Nov.30th was the day I got all our Christmas stuff out of the garage and got the house ready. I saved the tree for us all to do as a family for FHE that night.

Christmas is upon us and a New Year "2010" is approaching quickly... WOW, where has the time gone?

2009-12-09T13:39:00.003-07:00

For FHE we decorated the tree. It was a fun silly time where Christmas tunes were playing all while some goofed off here and there... Everyone was present except for little Joshua (who was under the weather and had gone to bed early after a rough day). When he awoke the next day I told him we had a surprise to show him - a decorated Christmas tree! At first he had that look of WHY is there a tree in our house?! But that soon changed once he saw all the colorful and fun things on it... I’ll let the pictures tell the rest of the story.
Just for the record it took a full day of explaining and teaching before he left the tree alone...for today.

2009-12-09T13:39:00.000-07:00

Ty adding a little decorating humor by turning Jt's Storm Trooper into an ornament!

It took a while before the Star Wars fanatic noticed that “HEY that’s MY Storm Trooper guy - DAD!!!”

2009-12-09T13:37:00.001-07:00

Let's decorate!

The kids busy decorating the tree...

Jonathan playing with the Tahiti scuba Santa ornament Mom & Dad gave us a few years back. I have to add a little island touch, can't take the "island" out of the island girl.

Turkeys!!!

2009-12-04T11:22:00.002-07:00

Our Thanksgiving was spent locally this year and it was good. Things didn’t work out to go to UT and now with my sister living in NZ our “every other Thanksgiving hosting” didn’t happen for obvious reasons. However it’s wonderful to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints - a ward family. A sweet family in our ward happily invited us to feast with them. A new Thanksgiving idea (Thanksgiving “kernels”), good company, good food and football makes a good day - a Happy Thanksgiving day! It’s a Hampton (extended) family tradition to see a movie after Thanksgiving. I’ve never asked why but I’m assuming it’s the guys (there are just way too many boys in the Hampton home) way of making it up to the ladies for watching FOOTBALL most of the day...
Here is a lovely picture of us after Saturday’s viewing of Disney’s “Christmas Carol” in 3D (thus the “nerdy” glasses.) BTW great movie - a classic.
Joshua doesn’t want to be a part of this not so cool moment, I don’t blame him but hey it’s funny looking! Good thing everyone wears these beauties in the DARK!!!

In the Spirit of Thanksgiving

2009-11-25T14:35:00.001-07:00

In the Spirit of Thanksgiving
One simple question:
“What are you thankful for?”
(click above to view this short message).

Scattering Sunshine.

2009-11-25T14:29:00.001-07:00

"And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God."
Mosiah 2:17 (The Book of Mormon.)

We are trying to teach our children to serve others weather it be a helping hand, encouraging words or just listening. For FHE we made a list of things we can do as a family to bless the lives of others. From the list we chose to brighten the day of children patients and their families. Ty went to work on contacting a hosiptal then we all worked on making cards. As parents we enjoyed watching them get creative and have fun doing this for complete strangers. Here Tia is losing herself in cardmaking.

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Thank you Miss Morgan H. for being so kind to our family and helping us teach our children to serve others in small ways. We enjoyed seeing and giving the patients and their families our homemade cards.

Here we are leaving the beautiful and colorful murals accompanied with uplifting quotes that adorn the halls of the UMC children’s hospital.

Serving others puts a SMILE on faces and warms hearts...
it just makes you feel good!

2009-11-25T14:27:00.000-07:00

We learnt that such a simple thing like a homemade card truly gives these kids a boost especially to the ones that are terminal. Just the fact that someone out there is thinking of you is nice. This simple activity also put things into perspective for our children. We should be grateful for our good health, our healthy bodies and for the simple things in life that sometimes we take for granted.

The Tri

2009-11-24T21:53:00.001-07:00

I’ll let Ty fill you in on his first Triathlon experience (see his blog soon). Saturday November 6, 2009 was the date.
Casa Grande, AZ was the place.
We (the kids and I) were not present because of soccer games.
But we were and are proud of him.
GO Dad you did it!

Pumpkins, Hot cocoa and fun!

2009-11-24T21:37:00.000-07:00

Yes, I’m on a roll here with my blog posts! I have all these October drafts that need to be posted because what are we? Like the end of November!!! So sorry to my far far away family members - these posts will show you that we are well ALIVE...

Grandma's if you can't see just Click on the collage to enlarge.

Halloween in da' hood...

2009-11-24T21:17:00.003-07:00

Trick or Treat?
Well we didn’t have a choice, we got smitten by the FLU (thank goodness it wasn’t the swine flu.) The YMCA Halloween party was a week early and everyone was fine so I’m glad the kids were able to have some fun. Little did we know that the following week was going to be “sicko week“. Tia was the first and the worst - she missed 4 days of school. We missed our ward trunk or treat for obvious reasons but we were able to get the kids out for the real deal a couple of days later.

Featuring: Indiana Jones, Charlie Brown and the Tucson Cowgirl.

...cute little Charlie B.

Hand over the candy and nobody will get hurt! Don't mess with her she has 2 revolvers!!

Go Indy! Hold on to that hat.

Credits: Mom’s frugal thinking.

Charlie Brown’s costume $2.50 (yellow tee from Michaels).
Indiana Jones outfit $3.00 (hat .99c, kitchen towel transformed into a shoulder bag .99c. Construction belt transformed to hold Indy’s stuff .99c.)
Cowgirl outfit $8.00 (like new cowgirl boots from Goodwill $5, top $3 from Twice as Nice).

TOTAL $13.50 to dress 3 kids for Halloween. Now that’s a TREAT!

Halloween @ the YMCA

2009-11-24T20:07:00.000-07:00

Superman, the army man and the soccer girl.

Joshua - ooh C A N D Y...hmmmm I think I would like the Kit Kat no wait may be a Snicker...

Tia helping Superman with the bean bag toss.

Army man Jonathan checking out the fire truck.

Meet "Rocky Tank".

2009-11-24T12:31:00.003-07:00

This is our latest addition a desert tortoise. We heard from some friends that you can adopt a desert tortoise from the museum - the Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum to be precise. When the kids heard all about it they were very interested in the idea of having a new pet and we (parents) loved the idea that it was going to be a free pet and a low maintenance one too. (Let’s be real here, you know what I’m talking about, when kids have a pet or pets who does most of the pet chores? Us).
Anyway the process of adopting a desert tortoise is fairly simple. You call the museum, they will send you some info, they come inspect your yard (the tortoise’s future home), if you pass their requirements then they will contact you to set up a date/time for you to come pick up your “new pet.”
Now in regards to our tortoise’s interesting name, that’s simple. Tia wanted “Rocky” and Jonathan wanted “Tank” so in order to maintain peace and harmony in the home the tortoise was named “Rocky Tank”.
Rocky Tank was adopted Oct. 23, 2009.

Leaving the Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum.

Joshua welcoming and petting Rocky Tank in our back yard - his new home.

Eating as much as he can...because guess what? He has to go into hibernation.

A day at the museum...

2009-11-24T11:41:00.006-07:00

...Here we are opening the door to further knowledge and appreciation of the diverse wildlife of the world (btw what a beautiful door design, very inviting). For a local museum it was pretty good. This was our first time visiting this particular museum - thanks Tia and Jonathan for the library coupons and thanks Dad for spending your day off with us. The kids enjoyed learning a little, touching and seeing a few animals up close with out the fear of getting chased and eaten! It was amazing to see a large variety of God’s creatures all in one building. If you are ever in our neck of the woods come check out the International Wildlife Museum, it’s a great place to be especially when it’s HOT outside.

Sshhhh...what to do when children misbehave? Feed them to a crocodile.

Our 3 stinky ferrets!

I love how Joshua is not sure about that elk...

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The Desert speaks:

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Here a few pictures from a Sunday stroll in the desert:

Soccer:

2009-11-23T01:29:00.004-07:00

I failed to mention that Jonathan is in soccer this year (a first). He has waited (and Dad too) a long long long time for this day to come - time to own some soccer gear, learn and play - hooray!
Prior to starting the season Ty gave our kids especially Johnny boy a lesson on sportsmanship. Then of course we had to play some soccer! At first it was the classic boys against girls which then evolved into kids against parents...good thing we had that lesson on "Sportsmanship"! We sure had a fun time in our backyard that night. As we come to the end of this soccer season, it‘s been fun watching our Johnny boy learn and enjoy the game of soccer.

These pictures were taken the first day of soccer:

Our Saturday soccer players #2 and #8.

What Matters Most.

2009-09-19T16:58:00.006-07:00

...spend time with, cherish, and express love to the people we hold dear. To view this inspiring message just click on the yellow title above "What Matters Most".
E N J O Y!

We have a ONE year old in the house.

2009-09-15T09:29:00.002-07:00

I'm behind on my blog posts but we celebrated our last birthday of the year: Joshua turned ONE - August 14th. We had a wonderful time as a family. Out of our two boys, Joshua is the calmer one and the cuddliest too. I love that in his eyes mommy makes everything better. One day at church a friend extended her arms to hold him and he just slowly turned his head away and held tight. My friend was ok with that and said he acted like a baby Koala. Her description was perfect. Below you'll see our cute little ONE year old in action.

2009-09-15T08:47:00.001-07:00

Mommy couldn't find our 1st year banner so she had Tia and Jonathan make one just for me.

My family blew up all these balloons for me to play with. Awesome!

Grandma "Snow" called to wish me a Happy Birthday but then I accidentally hang up on her...oops!
She called again and was able to finish singing to me, thanks Grandma "Snow".
Thanks Grandma "Tahiti" and the rest of the islanders for the birthday wishes too. LOVE YOU ALL.

What a HAPPY DAY! I'm ONE!

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Joshua gets the honors...Jonathan caught red handed sneaking some frosting.

I think he likes it! MMMmmmmmmmm sugar!

...to the bath tub to clean up and get ready to open presents.

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Big brother giving Joshua his first b-day present.

Wow! What's this lovely blue thing?

Look at that HAPPY face - priceless!

I am partied out people!

Breakers Water Park '09

2009-09-14T11:40:00.000-07:00

It's my understanding that Breaker's is the only water park in Tucson. It was the boys and I first time there. Jonathan was in play heaven!

Joshua was in splash heaven!
Check out our little WATER WIZARD!
Now say that really fast 10 times!

Love the spiky hairdo and that cute baby face!
How was your Summer?

Summer of fun!

2009-09-14T11:30:00.000-07:00

So we got smarter this year! Our kids participated in our local library's summer reading program: read and get rewarded for it hey, that sounds good to me. So the kids read like crazy to get small rewards along the way but the ultimate reward they were aiming for was FREE tickets to Breakers Water Park! And they did it! Last year we totally missed the program but Ty & I came up with our own reading program for Tia and then Ty took her. I didn't go with them then because I was LARGE with child and really didn't want to "expose" my heftiness, my hugeness or my chunkiness (name that movie?). But this time around we all went as a family and we had lots of fun!

It's Soccer time.

2009-09-14T09:32:00.004-07:00

Jersey #8 is Miss Tia.

Get this their team is called the "Maneating chickens"??? so ferocious and manly...Tia wasn't to fond about that but hey that's what the majority voted for. Last week a friend and Tia came up with names like the Grasshoppers, Green Gators, Grasshopper Divas, Recycling chicks?, Green Beans, Grassy girls...Ty and I liked the Grasshopper idea. What about you?

Tia started soccer this month when the weather is cooling off.

She has soccer practice on Mondays and Thursdays and a game on Saturdays.

Saturday Sept.12 was their first game.

Go "Maneating chickens!"

...break time.

Strategy time...I don't think Tia is paying attention :)

The score was 2 - 0!

So you would think by this picture that they WON alas the "Maneating chickens" got spanked! And yes we reward LOSERS in our home. After all it was their first game and she did HER BEST.

Friends.

2009-09-14T01:01:00.000-07:00

This is a picture of a picture. The original picture was taken by Jacob Larsen who I believe was 10 or 12 at the time. This picture is one of our favorites. Jacob and his family blew it up and gave it to us as a gift many years ago. It remains on our wall not only as a reminder of love and family but also as a reminder of friendship. We all have friends and they're very important and then there are those who are extra special because they touch ones life for the better, the Larsen family happen to be "extra special" to me. They touched my life many years ago when I first met their parents who served (as temple president ) with my father in the Papeete, Tahiti temple. A friendship developed between our families and that's what brought me to study in America. Without coming here I don't think I would have met another "extra special friend" - Ty.

12 years ago...

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We were married for Time and All Eternity in the beautiful and historical Salt Lake Temple in Utah.
Our meeting was like the words to one of Ty's favorite U2 songs:
The Sweetest Thing "...Blue-eyed boy and this brown-eyed girl." Lol.
I came to the US to pursue an education in Graphic Design/ Art (using computers) after being schooled in fine art by very traditional French art professors in Tahiti. This was my first time coming to America.
Ty and I met at a church dance.....oh the sweetest thing! For the record, my sister and I love to dance and NO I was not "shopping" I was just merely having fun - dancing. Back in the island days as soon as we were of age to attend church dances and friends "booms" we would faithfully go with a group of friends and dance the night away. Fun times!
So I guess it was meant to be that I would meet my Prince at a "ball"....oh the sweetest thing! According to Ty we met Friday Dec.13, 1996 (I still haven't verified that precious detail). So Mr. Romantic thought it would be cool to remember that date and get married in Dec on the 13th....oh the sweetest thing! However that date changed due to the fact that I had 2 other sisters getting married that same year '97. One wedding in Tahiti and two in the US. Financially we decided it would be best to have our wedding the week after my sister's so that my parents would be there and not have to go home and turn around and come back. Plus the idea of a winter wedding was pretty but brrr cold for a surfer dude and an island girl! Coincidentally the week after my sister's wedding was the 13th, may be not Dec.13th but Sept.13th so I guess 13 is our lucky number ;)
...oh the sweetest thing!
Ty, thank you for being a wonderful friend, husband and father. I appreciate our journey together.
Happy Anniversary to us "Blue-eyed boy and Brown-eyed girl!"
I LOVE YOU!

PS: this is a picture of a picture since I have issues with my scanner right now. Enjoy.

Popsicles & Lemonade...

2009-09-11T21:23:00.002-07:00

...well it's been more like a summer of Otter pops and homemade Limeade. I'm sure Miss Tia will not forget the summer of '09, the summer where she had a limeade stand, worked hard and made some serious dough. She sold Otter Pops, Air Head candy, rice crispy treats, Kool Aid and her signature drink: refreshing homemade LIMEADE. At the end of the day it was cute to see her happy face count her money (tips too) set 10% aside for tithing and then repay her loan (for ingredients and supplies).
Many thanks to those thirsty customers, Dad for helping her set up shop and brother Jonathan for flying the flag and keeping her company during a very HOT Arizona summer day.

Elder McGrevy

2009-08-21T08:34:00.016-07:00

Living vicariously...this is from my sister's blog/ email.
I wish I was there... Like I mentioned before my sister now lives in New Zealand and it was perfect that she was able to visit briefly with our brother before he took his next flight home to Tahiti. She took pictures that for some reason I can't copy and paste them to my blog - booo...sorry you'll just have to picture a handsome young man with a black/white badge and a huge smile...

"This evening we picked up Uncle and headed to the Auckland International Airport to see my brother Elder Andrew McGrevy!
For the past two years he has been serving a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in Wellington, New Zealand. A couple of weeks ago we received an email from Elder McGrevy with flight information and were thrilled to find out he would be making a change of planes at the Auckland airport. Even though his layover was short, we did not want to miss an opportunity to see him before he goes home to Tahiti! Uncle Noel suggested we meet Andrew at the domestic terminal and drive him to the International terminal. That's what we decided to do and it allowed us a little more time to visit with him - we ended up visiting for almost 45 minutes! It was great to see how much my brother has matured physically and spiritually over the past couple years! He has a glowing countenance as you can see from the photos.

He told us about wanting to rest on the flight over then hearing the still small voice prompt him to talk to the guy next to him. So he did and they had a great discussion! The passenger worked for a brewery and when he found out Andrew was a missionary he said "I'm the opposite of you!" There were eleven other missionaries that finished today also but they had flown out earlier. A former sister missionary and her husband came to see Andrew at the airport as well. They enjoyed talking a little about the mission and catching up. As we were getting into the car to drive to the international terminal, Carson decided to make a run for it and Andrew went after him. While running back and a little worried about missing his connecting flight he said "I don't want to miss my flight home!" We wish we were joining you too, Andrew!

Well done Elder Mcgrevy for two amazing years serving the Lord and the people of New Zealand! Enjoy being home in Tahiti and know that we will be there in spirit as the McGrevy Islanders, family and friends celebrate your return!
We love you and wish you continued success for the rest of your journey in life!" End of sister's blog post.

Coincidentally my brother returns just one day shy of our father's passing, tomorrow (Aug. 22nd) will make one year. I can't imagine what is going thru my brother's head right now especially when he steps off the plane and sees family minus our Dad there to welcome him. Also I can't imagine what's going thru my Mom's head...I have a strong feeling that our father will be there and that his presence will be felt today, tomorrow and always...

"Bon retour au 'fenua' mon frere!
Nous sommes fieres de toi!
Ua here matou ia oe!"

"Goodbye Sista".

2009-07-15T09:07:00.016-07:00

As of July 7th the only sister/ family I had in the US of A:

M O V E D with her little family overseas.

They moved to New Zealand or like the Maori say "Aotearoa", commonly translated as The Land of the Long White Cloud, land of "Lord of the Rings", a land of majestic mountains, green hills and woolly white sheep, Rugby (equivalent of USA football minus the spandex, padding and helmets), ferns and Kiwis.

Just a little background here my father and his family are from New Zealand and my mother is from French Polynesia. There are 9 kids in our family, I'm the oldest. The first 5 of us were born in New Zealand and the rest were born in the islands of Raiatea & Tahiti. So in an interesting way my sister has returned to her country of birth. I have an Uncle (my dad's oldest and only sibling) who lives there and relatives who alas I don't know.

Now my sister is an adventurous spirit, she's the spunky outgoing type that runs marathons, has fed sting rays, has participated in pioneer treks, sky dives and bungee jumps with her husband, loves to travel and is always willing to try new things. A few years ago she and her husband vacationed in New Zealand a couple of times and fell in love with the beauty of this place called "NZ". New Zealand is an "island country" in the south western Pacific Ocean comprising two main landmasses (commonly called the North Island and the South Island). It's a beautiful place. One of my brothers is actually serving an LDS mission in Wellington, New Zealand right now. I can't believe he finishes his mission next month.

Anyway to make a long story short they wanted to move somewhere other than Arizona. I remember her telling me of places like Hawaii, Tahiti, California...And since they are adventurous they chose New Zealand. The good thing is that it is an English speaking place so the kids and my brother-in-law won't have to learn another language they just have to remember to drive on the LEFT side of the road, confusing I know.

Since the move I have received emails from my sister and so far so good they love it! I'm happy for them yet sad that I have no family here. I miss our sister time, long phone conversations, visits, outings, French/ Tahitian speaking - "the codes", our love for French pastries and bread, recipe swapping, ideas, advice, surprises, laughs, outbursts, motivation and help with sowing, Thanksgiving dinners... We have done a lot together.
Thanks for being a wonderful sister. I love you and MISS YOU. But such is life. Take care.
So long farewell.............

until we meet again.

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Cousins

Tia (10) & Kalia (6)

Kalia and Carson were the only cousins that lived "close by" (Mesa) the rest of the cousins reside in Utah and Tahiti.

For our Grandmas and family far far far away...

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Level Two - Done!

2009-07-13T16:45:00.005-07:00

So Level 2 started June 15-26 and it was a bit of a challenge for most of the kids. I think the part that scared them the most was having to jump into the deepest part of the pool which I think is 12 feet. The dark blue water probably made them think of sharks :) and the fact that they could not touch the bottom with their feet made things worse.

Jonathan was a little afraid but with some practice things quickly improved which resulted in him passing. He can move on to level 3 but that would be another 2 weeks by the pool...so we'll say "no thank you" and save level 3 and 4 for next year.

I've spent 4 weeks total by the pool for swim lessons and that's OK because I love my kids and I love the tan but we have other things to do too.

Walking

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June 14th, 2009 - My sweet boy turned 10 months old.

Just a couple of days before his "monthly b-day" he took his first steps without assistance and I was there to see it all. It was awesome to see this little person walk from one couch to the other and then to see his siblings smiling, clapping, cheering him and hoping that he would continue with the show...very cute. Joshua has been pushing his walker or using chairs and other means to walk his way over to places but today was the day that he felt confident enough to let go and go for it! Good job sweetheart!

Yes, I know this post is late and come tomorrow Joshua will be 11 months - Crazy but that is what happens when you take a break from journal recording, gotta catch up!

Level One - Done!

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Jonathan passed Level One and is ready to go on to Level Two.
We are proud of you!

Can't see...Click on the collage to enlarge pix.

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Other than enjoying his vanilla shake I wonder what he is thinking about? A Gold medal?

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Sibling silliness.

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Dad suggested we celebrate Jonathan's success with lunch at In and Out Burger - LOVE that place! Thanks Dad for supporting me during test day and for the yummy shake.

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Test day is over...the water was cold but wrapped in my towel I feel good.

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Me and my buddy Blaine.

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Burr...the water is COLD and it's windy today...cheese!

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Piece of cake...

Summer Swim Lessons

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Living in the desert especially during the summer time you want to be around water even if it's an inflatable kiddie pool in your back yard...W A T E R water please.
Last summer I was large with child and really didn't want to be in a swimsuit at a community pool so during his spare time Ty taught Jonathan how to swim.
Jonathan did very well thanks to his awesome teacher - Dad.

It's summer again and those skills were forgotten over time.
We were planning on swim lessons regardless but after almost "drowning" at my sister's in Mesa, we signed him up right away. Just for the record my sister and Tia were close by when Jonathan jumped in and realized that he had forgotten how to swim, they saved him! Where was I?
Well I was with Ty and Joshua at the Wigwam Golf Resort and Spa for a couple of days. Ty had some business there and spouses were invited. So my sister was gracious to watch the other kids so I could support Ty.

Anyways back to swim lessons here are a few pictures of Jonathan's first swim session. It was 2 weeks long Monday - Friday.

Taking a break...

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Since Tia got out of school in May, I've been extra busy. Busy with all kinds of activities from swim lessons, several trips to our local library, to the movies, to crafts at home, to kids/cousins play dates, sleep overs, more pool days, parties and I can go on and on.
Mom's are busy period!
I got so caught up with family that I decided to take a break from blog world (one less thing on my list) and honestly I think it's a good thing... However since my blog is my modern day journal it's about time to get back on track and pick up the slack before the slack turns into a "mountain".
Must take the kiddos to the pool today but will be back to catch up...

He's at it again!

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I don't know what it is with Jonathan and our digital camera but we always find some lovely portraits of him when we scroll through our pictures. It wasn't too long ago that Ty found some hilarious pictures of Jonathan that I believe he ended up posting on his blog. Well now it's my turn to publicly display what I found on today's SD card...If he continues Ty and I are going to have some interesting "blackmailing" materials. Anyway the frenzy restarted yesterday when the Elders (young missionaries of our church) were at our home for dinner and it continued on today...here a flash, there a flash every where a flash! Flash!

There are some lovelies but I have only chosen three. Here are my TOP 3 which I have entitled: "Cherri-O", "Bucky" and "Hello Ladies".

What a ham! Enjoy!

Let's have a little FUN...

Do you have a family clown in your home?

Do you care to share a funny picture(s) of your family clown?

The HULA Bug.

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My sweet mother is Tahitian. Before moving to the mainland Tahiti we use to live on the island of Raiatea. While living on that island (Raiatea) she put us in a Tahitian dance group and so my sisters and I were taught the dances of our ancestors the "Aparima" (a slow graceful dance) and the "Otea" (a fast hip moving dance). We danced at school events, church functions (welcoming church general authorities) etc. I still remember the long dance rehearsals where we not only had to memorize the choreography but the songs as well (in the native language of course -Tahitian). The sound of traditional instruments: the ukulele's, "to ere" and drums were rich and exciting.

Today I can still hear the deep sound of drums this time they are calling me... A few times I have done cultural presentations and have enjoyed sharing my heritage with others. And many times I have toyed with the idea of teaching Tahitian "hula" but never have followed through. However the other day after stopping at an authentic Hawaiian shaved ice stand outside of Foothills Mall, the Hula bug bit me again and I'm itching like crazy...SO I'm just going to go for it this time and see what happens.

{See ad below}

What is your girl doing this summer?

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Why not have your daughter spend a few weeks making new friends and having fun while learning a culture and dance.
Come learn the Tahitian "Hula" with me.

What to expect?
Exposure to basic positions, "Hula" movements, terminology as well as Tahitian culture through pictures, games and crafts.
When?
June and July once a week from 2-3pm.
Ages: 3-5 on Mondays
Ages: 6-8 on Wednesdays
Where?
At my home.
What to wear?
Shorts.
A Tahitian "pareo" (dance sarong) will be provided.

Cost?
$35 for a 4 week session.
(Sibling discount available)
Questions - please call me or email me.

Feel free to tell your girlfriends.
Maruru - Thanks.

Smarty Pants.

2009-05-19T14:27:00.008-07:00

This morning I was making silly sounds and funny faces as I fed Joshua his baby food. Jonathan was near by having breakfast and this is what he said.

Jonathan: Mom you're SILLY!

Me: Yes, I know.

Me: Jonathan you're SMART!

Jonathan (with a slow yet confidence voice): Yes, I Am!

Ah just the way it came out made me laugh. Such confidence!

Trapped!

2009-05-18T18:40:00.002-07:00

These pictures were taken a couple of months ago and I forgot to post them. Joshua was about 7 months old. Anyway he has been crawling for a while and there have been times where he gets trapped or stuck just like Winnie the Pooh. Sometimes I let him cry for a bit with the hopes that he will figure things out and sometimes it works but there are times like this one where he simply needs help.

Tia and her PINK Roses.

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Did I mention that Tia loves the color PINK (any hue as long as it's pink all is well) and she loves flowers too...Anyway it was no surprise when Ty asked her last year what flower would she like to plant she replied roses and pink ones too please. Yes, Ty is my landscaper extraordinaire and I love his hard work on the yard.

Back to Miss Pinky Pants besides dropping ripe banana peels* by her rose brush and watering them, her roses came in better this year. She was so thrilled that she cut a couple and displayed them in a vase for all of us to enjoy. Thanks Tia!

{ Garden Tip of the day }: banana peels placed around roses deter aphids all while giving your roses potassium and other good things.

Is there such a thing as a GIANT Baby Carrot?

2009-04-14T20:58:00.008-07:00

Well look what I found when I opened a bag of BABY carrots? A giant baby carrot or should I call it a "Toddler" carrot. It was in the middle of the bag concealed by all the other normal size Baby carrots. I just happened to grab a handful and out came this honker!

Now call me "foreigner" or "islander" because for a long time I thought Baby carrots were actually miniature sized carrots (perfect for the Easter bunny right). Hey, when farmers and scientists start playing around with food or plants crossing this tree with that tree and what not it's hard to keep track of things.

Anyway it was only last year while watching the Discovery channel that I was ENLIGHTEN!

So to my fellow friends & family who grew up on an island just for your information: Baby carrots are carrots of approximately two inches (5.08 cm) in length, which are sold packed into plastic bags. They are very popular as snacks, often eaten raw with ranch dressing or another type of dip. Baby carrots are actually NOT miniature-sized carrots. Instead, they are full-sized carrots with imperfections, which, instead of being discarded, are cut into small segments and peeled, which turns them into ready-to-eat portions. Got it? GOOD.

Now what should I do with this beauty? Eat it or should I sell it on EBay to some crazy buyer? Carrots!? Let the bidding begin! Jk :)

"Blackberry" April 6, 2009.

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The kids especially Tia are sad to announce the sudden loss of their beloved pet bunny "Blackberry". They brought him home Saturday and all seemed well until this evening around 5:30. Although he lived a short life the kids loved him. We held a small service and buried him in our backyard by the lime tree...We miss you Blackberry.

Introducing: "Blackberry".

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Ty's garden. Pictures by Ty. Collage by Ruth. Creations by God.

4 YEARS OLD.

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JONATHAN'S SPECIAL DAY...

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...started with wishes.

A few days before April 1st I asked my boy what would make his special day special? This is what his little heart desired: a "Rainbow cake" (confetti cake), Army men (present), go to the "Bookstore" (which is Barnes & Noble) to play with trains, a play date with his buddy Blaine, eat French fries, play at "Donald's" (McDonald's) and go to the park with Dad. So that's exactly what we did.

Happy Birthday Jonathan!

What?

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Last month I gave Joshua a graham cracker while I was unloading the dishwasher. When I checked on him this is what I found a lovely graham cracker face. Love love love the face!

Feed me!

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Feb.14th Joshua turned 6 months. I started him off with a bowl of Rice cereal but noticed he wanted more food so I decided to give him some sweet potatoes which to my surprise he woofed down like he had already eaten this stuff before. As you can tell he was getting tired of mom taking pictures and just wanted to get to the food. That a boy!

C'est la vie.

2009-04-03T19:18:00.005-07:00

No, I haven't fallen off the face of the earth just fallen off blog world.
Life has been busy - all I can say is "c'est la vie"!
We welcomed the New Year with Conjunctivitis/Pinkeye (Jonathan & Joshua) and the U of U winning the Sugar bowl - nice!
Ty was gone for 3 weeks (California, Insurance Producer school), broke his windshield twice - the first time was on the way to California and the second incident happened on the way back - what more can I say but c'est la vie! It was so good to have him back.
(See Ty's blog for details.)

In February, Tia started piano lessons (a first) and is doing well. She also got her ears pierced (a first) and turned 10! No, that's not a typo those are double digits you see. Our sweet girl is changing - but hey, c'est la vie! At school her 4th grade class just for fun participated in a Science Fair for 5th and 6th graders. Tia choose to grow MOLD (on bread) and had fun documenting the experiment. We learned that most breads contain mold inhibitors (preservatives) that make some breads edible for a longer time. We had a few slices that didn't have mold on them even 17+ days after their expiration date - gross. Makes me want to make my own bread but hey my oven died! Everything else works except for the oven - c'est la vie!Feb. 14th sweet baby Joshua turned 6 months and started solids. The boy loves to eat (must be the Polynesian side) and I don't have a problem with that.

March was loaded with activities (piano lessons, a piano recital, spring break, morning walks, parent teacher conference, just to name a few).
Now it's April! We started the month with a birthday - Jonathan turned 4 on the 1st and yes he was born on April Fool's and bla bla bla there is more to come...it will most likely be pictures.

Beautiful...just the way you are.

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Special Thanks to: Lovely Julie (my partner in crime) for helping me in so many ways from pink stand up mirrors, manicures, eye shadow samples to "spa" looking china...those details made Tia's party special.
To my handsome boys thanks for leaving us girls do our thing. Ty thanks for being my part time photographer when I was busy pampering the girls. Thanks Jonathan & Ty for being our personal pizza delivery guys too. Thanks Joshua for always being such a pleasant and easy baby. And last but not least thanks to our families near and far for wishing Tia a happy birthday via emails, phone calls and cards. You made her day super special.
Merci beaucoup - Maururu roa!

10 Years Old
Click collage to enlarge.

Tia's SPA party part 4. "Girlie Girls"

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Beautiful Girls!

Girls just want to have fun!

Tia's SPA party part 3. "Manicures"

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"Satin hands" the girls loved the sensation!

Spa day = girls day = so much fun!

Red polka dots? Pink polka dots? White polka dots?
Or a little of everything?

10 years old and beautiful.

Tia's SPA party part 2 "Facials"

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Peel Off Mask application.

Mask, cucumbers and relaxing music...life is good!

Light make up application (eye shadow and lip gloss...).

Tia's SPA party part 1.

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Spa entrance.

I couldn't have done this without my friend.
Thanks Julie for helping me pull this off. You are the best!

Spa favors for the girls.

"O" so lovely and silly!

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Butterfly Birthday Breakfast
(eggs, toast, chocolate strawberry and hot cocoa).
Science Fair. Tia's birthday cake.

Tia loves this new Primary song - so do I...

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"The Family Is of God"
Words and music: Matthew Neeley

1. Our Father has a family. It's me! It's you, all others too: we are His children.
He sent each one of us to earth, through birth, to live and learn here in families.
2. A father's place is to preside, provide, to love and teach the gospel to his children.
A father leads in family prayer to share their love for Father in Heaven.
3. A mother's purpose is to care, prepare, to nurture and to strengthen all her children.
She teaches children to obey, to pray, to love and serve in the family.
4. I'll love and serve my family and be a good example to each family member.
And when I am a mom or dad, so glad, I'll help my family remember.

Chorus:
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be - This is how He shares His love, for the family is of God.

http://www.lds.org/cm/display/0,17631,7206-1,00.html

"I'll be a Sunbeam for Him".

2009-01-06T16:21:00.008-07:00

It's official as of Sunday 4th, 2009 Jonathan Hampton is a SUNBEAM.

With Church starting at 9:00am and having to get three kids ready by myself I forgot to take our camera or even take a before and after picture. However a good friend was taking pictures of the newcomers and emailed me this cute shot of my Sunbeam! Thanks Julie! Prior to becoming a Sunbeam he learned how to sing the "Sunbeam" song and loved it, it's one of Jonathan's favorites. Jonathan has been looking forward to this day and likes the fact that he has "graduated" to a "big class" and will be associating with the "big kids" now.

To my family and friends:

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Bonne Annee!

Ia Ora na i te Matahiti Api!

Have a Happy New Year!

Hampton family: 2008 in a Flash.

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Ty: Went to Georgia at the beginning of the year. Golf, golf and golf’s whenever an opportunity presents its self. Still thinks he is 25, plays soccer, softball and basketball almost every week. Watched our 2 kids for 14 days (and survived) while Ruth was in Tahiti. Lost his favorite Uncle to cancer. In August started a new job, as a commercial lines producer for “The Mahoney Group”.
Ruth: Pregnant for most of the year. Stopped child daycare to concentrate on her growing family. Large with child, traveled to Tahiti (French Polynesia) without Ty and the kids. Spent some quality time with her family especially her father. In August gave birth to another big boy, Joshua Wayne 10 lbs.6oz. (our daughter still holds the record 11 lbs.7oz.). Lost her dear father to Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma (NHL) a week after giving birth to Joshua.
Tia (9): Enjoys swimming and swam her summer away. Enjoys playing the “Wii” (bowling, golf, tennis etc.). Started 4th grade and is learning to play the recorder. Put soccer on hold to help Mom and enjoy her new baby brother. Lost 2 teeth. Enjoys going to the library and reading. Mastered making homemade Limeade using limes from our lime tree. Still loves butterflies.
Jonathan (3): Loves playing sports and is a natural. Visited a fire station for his birthday. Learned how to swim this summer. Loves fire trucks, trains, guns, tanks, army men and knights. Enjoys playing the “Wii” and hates to lose. Loves to sing the “Sunbeam” song. Got his first library card. Became a “big boy” by using the potty and wearing underwear.
Joshua (4mths.): Drinks mommy milk, sleeps through the night, poops, smiles, giggles, wiggles, chews his fingers, loves baths, is calm and peaceful, is a joy to all.

Mt. Lemmon's Winter Wonder land.

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Mommy's Angels: Tia making a snow angel.

Jonathan done making his snow angel.

Thanks for the snow ball people!

Thanks Dad and the Hoobler family for this cool outing!

We had tons of fun!

Mt. Lemmon area...so pretty. Thanks for taking these pictures Ty.

Christmas Everyday.

2008-12-28T21:21:00.008-07:00

I miss you Dad. I know you loved Christmas.
I remember you saying a few years ago when we were visiting for Christmas how you wished Christmas was everyday...
As I reflected upon your statement this came to mind that Christmas is usually the season where there is an outreach that comes into our hearts. Hearts are softened. We think a little more kindly of one another, there is little less of bitterness or hate. There is more love...love for our families, for our friends, for our neighbors or even strangers. There is more reaching out to those in trouble, need or distress. Christmas is about Christ. I think I know what you meant by wanting Christmas to be an every day thing. I love you Dad.

After our own Christmas (morning) we packed food, gifts and kids and headed up to Mesa to have lunch/dinner at my sister's house. The food was good, merci ma soeur! The kids had a wonderful time playing with their cousins too. After our meal and chatting we called our mother (Tahiti) and siblings via Skype to wish them a Merry Christmas etc. It was wonderful to hear from you mom. I wish we were closer so we could all get together for such holidays.

Around 8 we packed everyone in the car to see the lights at the Mesa temple. As always the lights and displays were beautiful...I love the feelings felt there too.

Christmas means giving.

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Tia is such a thoughtful and giving person. On Christmas morning Jonathan found a "gift" under the tree with his name on it. When he opened it this is what he found: a one dollar bill inside a homemade card that said:

"Merry Christmas. This is for your mission. Love, Tia". She is referring to an LDS mission, that's what the "Mormon boys" do when they reach 19. They teach the gospel. They serve for 2 years.

The best part of Tia's "gift" is that we had nothing to do with it. It was all her doing...and that's Tia for you.

"Believe"

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"The bell still rings for me".

Quote from "The Polar Express" movie.

Carrots for Santa's "Raindeer".

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Tia left this out for Santa's "Raindeer" - so thoughtful.

As you can see they are messy eaters.

Santa's sleigh tracks...what a landing!

Simple evidence that Santa exists...our kids were in awe especially Jonathan.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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Send your own ElfYourself eCards

Mommy's Wonderful helper:

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Tia taking good care of Joshua while I was busy baking and making treats.
Joshua was so tired he fell asleep like this...

Making fun of our tired little "Moose".

He was so tired that the camera flashes didn't bother him.

To have a daughter is a blessing. Thanks Tia for all your help these past couple of weeks.

Joshua is catching flies...hehe.

Brothers.

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I'm telling you little Bro. Santa is coming tomorrow night...

Christmas Lights galore!

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Merry Christmas from Winter haven Arizona!

Pretty poinsettia's, twinkling lights, Santa displays...so Magical and Exciting! Jonathan is at that age where he is really excited crazy about Christmas...you can see it in his eyes.

Ty and I really liked this display. Whoever came up with this is one cool dude or dudette! This is how I would picture Santa in the islands...a couple of surfboards in the background, sand, flip flops...This is probably what Santa does when Christmas is over - a tropical vacation.

A Gingerbread house...tasty looking!

Family outing: Winter haven, AZ - Tuesday Dec.16, 2008.

Live Nativity

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As long as we have lived here we love to attend our Church's Live Nativity every year. It has become a tradition, a family tradition. This free live performance is open to the public and plays for 3 nights (Friday 12, Saturday 13 and Sunday 14). Here Tia invited one of her best friends Morgan. Tia is holding Jonathan in this picture too.
About three and a half years ago I had the honor of playing Mary for the live nativity. It was a wonderful yet humbling experience. Having given birth to a child in a nice comfy hospital I can't imagine doing the same thing but surrounded by animals, their odors, bugs, itchy hay and probably no privacy...such a humble setting for a King, I love my Savior!
He is truly the reason for the season.

Our kids all bundled up. Yes, it can get chilly even in the desert.

We Believe!

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A couple of weeks ago our kids wrote their letters to Santa.

Jonathan included his letter with Tia's so Santa would get both letters at the same time.

Thanks Tia for helping your brother I know Santa is watching...

Joshua's First Christmas decorating experience:

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Ooooh! So shiny, bright and lumpy...so this is called an ornament?

So what am I suppose to do with it?

Eat it - I guess...

Two little Indians...

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We stopped in Page, Arizona to let our little "Indians" run around for a while. This is the 2nd time we've done this during a trip home from Utah. Last time we only had a picture of Tia, this time around Jonathan is in it. I was nursing Joshua in the car so Joshua will be in a Page, Arizona picture next time...Heavenly Father is such the artist, I love these earthy colors and the rock formations, simply beautiful against the soft blue sky.

Ty took these cute pictures since I was nursing Joshua in that white car you see parked on the side of the road way, way down...
The kids collected some sand in a bottle and here they are showing off some rocks they found. Cool Rocks!